The article explores the psychology of men in relationships, their reasons for leaving, and their occasional return. It discusses the ‘no-contact rule’ and its effects, stressing the emotional impacts on men when women move on or become independent. The importance of understanding attachment styles and communication within a relationship is highlighted, along with the need for self-preservation when confronting these cycles. The piece ultimately advises women to assess their emotional well-being and intentions carefully when a man exhibits inconsistent behavior in a relationship.